âWhatâs the matter, mother? Are you not feeling well?â Qin Yining put her needlework to the side and started massaging her motherâs back with gentle pats.
âDaughter Yi, I know you donât like daughter Hui, and that sheâs made some mistakes before. But in the end, arenât we all one family? The main branch of the family has only the two of you. I donât like it that the two of you donât get along.â
Jin- mama brought over a little pointed mallet and took over Qin Yiningâs massage duties. She chose this moment to speak in a gentle voice, âDonât make it difficult for the fourth miss, madame. Itâs really not her fault. Sheâs expressed her goodwill many times, but Miss Huining doesnât accept it at all. It really puts the fourth miss in a difficult position.â
âIf this old servant may say something above her station,â Jin- mama continued, âOur fourth miss is a gracious and sincere person. We can see that just from how she treats those by her side. If I were to generalize, Iâd say this manner comes from you, madame. You treat us servants so kindly, and so does the fourth miss. She wouldnât even harm a servant, much less provoke and scheme against someone. But, madame, thereâs no logic in this world that says one can only be bullied and not return the favor.â
Jin- mama completely hated Qin Huining now. The foster girlâs wet nurse, Cai- mama, was Jin- mama âs niece. The two werenât close, but Qin Huining hadnât even spared a look in her direction after Cai- mama had been beaten and thrown out of the manor for the foster girl. She hadnât even sent a copper coin in consolation! It was as if Cai- mama wasnât her wet nurse, and worse, like the two had never known each other. Such treatment chilled the heart of those who knew the two. Wet nurses were different from ordinary servants. They were the ones who breastfed the children, and accompanied them through life. They often spent more time with the child than the birth mothers. Such cold-hearted actions completely wiped away any trace of Jin- mama âs good feelings for Qin Huining.
In contrast, if one looked at Ruilan, now known as Songlan, who didnât know of whatâd befallen that maid? And yet no one made an issue out of the fact that she was actually Ruilan, and no one dared mention the theft in front of her anymore. Sheâd been framed, and her mistress had returned her innocence to her! Both Ruilan and Cai- mama had been beaten and thrown out of the manor, but Songlanâs mistress had remembered her and gone to great effort to save her and have her return in glory. Not a single person dared bully her now. The contrast between the two mistresses was obvious, and however much disdain Jin- mama mightâve had for Qin Yining before, it was all replaced by respect now.
âDonât worry, mother. Iâll bring the fox pelt to Miss Huining in a moment. But the sticky rice and red bean paste snacks we had just now were delicious. Jin- mama , are there any more left in the residence kitchen? Iâll bring some to Miss Huining as well.â
Thank goodness I just told them to make some more! Jin- mama smiled merrily. âYes indeed! Iâll give the orders now so that you have a bit more to bring to Miss Huining.â
âJin- mama , big sister Caiju.â Songlan dipped in greeting, smiling at the two. Bingtang followed her example adroitly.
âAiyo, this wonât do!â Jin- mama knew of Bingtangâs background, so how would she dare accept her curtsey? She quickly turned away and curtseyed to Bingtang instead.
With the courtesies having been seen to, Bingtang smiled brilliantly at them. âI felt that the skies donât look too good today. We might have a shower of rain mixed with snow. We didnât want the miss to be chilled, and so brought these items to her.â
Jin- mama and Caiju subconsciously looked up. Although the skies didnât have a clear blue hue to them, only a few clouds could be seen scudding through the air. It didnât look like the weather would take such a bad turn. Therefore, they assumed that Qin Yiningâs maids had just come up with an excuse to visit their mistress.
âMiss Bingtang is so thoughtful. Hurry and come inside to warm up.â Jin- mama settled the two by the fire in the outer room as she took the meal box inside.
âThatâs a good idea. Your maternal grandmother also gave me the purple pelt of a cougar. Why donât we have them all made into neck warmers. The remaining material can then be made into hand warmers. Theyâll be both useful and good looking.â
âMother knows the best, this is an even better idea.â Qin Yining nodded. âI wonder how Miss Huining will want to use her pelt. Why donât we go ask her together?â
Bingtang snorted. âDonât forget, we also have a bet riding on this.â
Her curiosity piqued, Qin Yining asked, âWhatâs the forfeit?â
âI owe her a box of hand ointment if it doesnât snow, and she owes me a pair of shoes if it does.â
Qin Yining burst out in laughter. âYou two sure know how to amuse yourselves.â
Btw, I posted these examples of Chinese curtsies in the announcement post yesterday, but I donât know if everyone reads them! You can see more examples here as well @ 27:42
Many thanks to Bearilicious for the vid!
Thanks to GZ for the gif!
Iâve been wanting to write a quick note about the âcurtseyingâ motion, as I gather most are probably used to Western curtseys, where you dip one knee behind the other and pull out your skirt/dress. The dipping motion is also present in Chinese curtseys, but with a head tilt downwards and the hands at the waist or hip, depending on the dynasty. Itâs a quick bobbing action.
When I write âgrand gesture of greetingâ, itâs a full bend and sinking down to the ground. The person holds it until theyâre told to rise, so gotta work those thigh muscles! This isnât to be confused with âkowtowâingâ, where not only are you on both knees (a grand gesture could be both knees too, depending on dynasty), but your forehead and hands are plastered to the ground as well.